Alone in my own home... - Page 2

Vfr · 11-30-2006, 01:42 PM

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Originally Posted by nanners86

It seems that everyday my b/f and I are in a debate about athiesm vs. agnosticism. He tells me that I am an athiest, mabey I am. I am confused. I just think this... I am not sure that there is a god or what have you and I don't think it will ever be proven either way. But then when I am asked if I believe in god my direct answer isn't, "I don't know" but "No". I am finding that I am very angry because I am judged not only by someone who doesn't believe in god (someone who one would think would support me because we feel very similar on the subject) and I am judged by those who do believe in god. It seems as if everyone thinks I am going thru a phase and I will come to their side a I grow. I have been a agnostic sense I was 16, I think this is all I will ever be. i just feel a lack of support and sometimes I feel alone.

Well, you have support here, but do not depend on anyone but yourself when it comes to inner peace.

For instance, I was banned from many 'so called' Buddhist sites such as Esangha, Tricycle, Shambhala, Buddha Chat, 12 step Buddhists, Sangha-Pauahtun, eBuddhism, Etc.

Where would I be with my practice if I depended solely on these forums?

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Belle · 12-05-2006, 10:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nanners86

It seems that everyday my b/f and I are in a debate about athiesm vs. agnosticism. He tells me that I am an athiest, mabey I am. I am confused. I just think this... I am not sure that there is a god or what have you and I don't think it will ever be proven either way. But then when I am asked if I believe in god my direct answer isn't, "I don't know" but "No". I am finding that I am very angry because I am judged not only by someone who doesn't believe in god (someone who one would think would support me because we feel very similar on the subject) and I am judged by those who do believe in god. It seems as if everyone thinks I am going thru a phase and I will come to their side a I grow. I have been a agnostic sense I was 16, I think this is all I will ever be. i just feel a lack of support and sometimes I feel alone.

You know what you think, believe, and what lies within your own heart of hearts. It should not matter that others are judging you because ultimately, the only one whose opinion matters at all is your own. Love yourself. Trust yourself. You won't steer you wrong!

faeriegrove · 12-06-2006, 11:48 AM

eat less, go outside and walk, or better yet, go dancing! there are many places where one can dance (without a partner!) It is very FUN, liberating and you get to enjoy great music and burn fat all at the same time!

I struggle with this, too... and I don't have the answers.... just some things to try.

like try this: google EFT.... they swear by their method and have lots of success stories. ( I haven't really tried it, though, but maybe someday....)

MickinEngland · 12-09-2006, 06:18 AM

"If you hang with losers you become a loser" - Donald Trump
"He who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm" (Proverbs 13:20)
GET ON THE WINNING SIDE :)
Jesus said - "I've beaten the world" (John 16:33)
"Who is it that beats the world? Only he who believes that Jesus is the Son of God" (1 John 5:5)

**The An-Jel** · 12-25-2006, 01:03 AM

There is no right or wrong answer yet. Stick to your guns kiddo!

mamab · 12-26-2006, 02:33 PM

I don't believe that every Christian is judgmental, just like I don't believe that every person who follows Islam is a terrorist. There are some in both camps that are, but there are probably alot more that aren't.

You're seeking, that's what's important. You'll find your way along the path you're meant to follow until you finally arrive at the truth for yourself.

Personally, I believe in God, not because I have to. Not because someone forced me to. I can't prove He exists, but can't prove that He doesn't. I choose to believe He does.

berlinlife06 · 12-26-2006, 05:47 PM

Follow your guts! Trust your self and your instincts. No matter what other tell you or think, you will always be better thinking whatever YOU think. What you have to do is just forget that people are judging you, don´t give them the chance... or get back at them... Judge them back if that makes you happy. Just don´t pay attention to people that don´t deserve it!