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What ever happened to all the natural girls?

I see a lot of girls at the pool and beach pierce their belly buttons and have crap hanging from it. They have charms on their shoelaces, charms hanging off their cell phones that seem glued to their ears and a cheap ring on every finger. If that was not enough, they glue all sorts of things on their fake fingernails from pumpkins to Steeler logos. Their 'cup cakes' are all plastic as well as their lips. If they don't silicone their breasts, then they tattoo them or their nipples are pierced.

I have to chuckle at all this breast decoration. Breasts don't need a damn thing to embellish them - they are perfect as is.

The girls pierce their genitals, have studs inside their lips, mouths, tongues and noses. Tons of piercings running up and down their ears. And many of them seem to have the sensitivity 'down there' of one that has been vibrating with a belt sander.

I don't look at porno much, I'm not a prude, but being a sex addict I had to cut it out about 95% if I wanted any peace. But in the off chance I take a peek, the sex seems so artificial and the girl has to be choked at the end by the guy or slapped around and abused. It is really not a turn on any longer. It is like watching robots having sex.

(...) writes: "This girl I am with now wants me to put my hand around her neck and choke her...not even during sex - like when we kiss or before sex. Is this normal?"


I guess choking is a natural progression for the search of higher highs with the insatiable sex addict. Same with all this external stuff that women grasp at seeking happiness - looking for inner fulfillment through outer possessions. (Men are graspers as well, but I am addressing the topic of natural women here.)

From: How to Want What You Have:

"People who dedicate their lives to the pursuit of sensual pleasure find that the more pleasure they get, the more they want. Small, ordinary pleasures soon lose their power to please and must be replaced with more intense or exotic ones. Heedless sensualists usually meet a bad end. They learn the hard way that their desires are relentless and insatiable."

Once in a while I see a nice, natural girl, without tons of makeup that exudes inner and outer beauty. Fresh pink skin, clean, plain and nicely groomed hair and dressed neatly. She may have mid length fingernails that are finished in clear coat and the only piercing on her are a couple of inconspicuous earrings. No, she is not a hot babe if one judges her by current trends, but she exhibits her 'hotness' in a way that seems to be lost nowadays...freshness and wholesomeness.

Now, I seldom get a chance to talk with these wholesome beauties at length to really get to know them, so I can only judge them by externals. No doubt surface appearance is not always reliable, and their inner beauty may not match their outer beauty, but at least it is a start in the right direction.

somdude85

I think you answered your own question.

The "all naturals" got implants and tattooed/pierced themselves. I'm sure it's a fad thing.

debdodd

freedom of expression for them? statements? many do it because of the ads and the fact that beauty is the focus to "get a man and keep a man"

there are more women than men so many women go to the extremes to get a man .... there are plenty of women out there with out enhancements. You don't notice the one who blend in ... you notice the ones that stand out ...

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lauraclay

Women wouldn't dress so crazily if men didn't demand it. I personally don't. I have the whitest skin ever, and could easily pass for one of those porcelain dolls on grandma's shelf. Not saying I'm that beautiful, just pointing out how incrediblely pale I am. So, for me, makeup is more of a hassle than an enahncement, so I don't bother. I'm allergic to metal, so I have no piercings, but I wouldn't have them anyway. So I'm not a girl defending myself. And I don't like that look, the one you described. But I would never blame the female gender for her outrageous wardrobe. I think that it is the female's dependence on the males. So we are both equally at fault. Males want a certain something, and females feel obligated to give it. And for me to not blame girls for something, that's rare. I am not very fond of the feminine sex. Not today anyway. We whine and bitch too much for my taste.

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Geshtinnanna

I am sleeved on both arms. I feel pretty natural to me.

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jaej

I agree with Deb-I think you just notice the ones that stand out. Any person I've ever talked to really doesn't like artificial enhancement, like lc seemed to indicate. I think it's largely a misconception that that's what guys want. Well, what I mean is, they want it to be real, not fake.

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The An-Jel

Between overt feminism and increasing sexual sensationalism combining to confuse a woman's role in society... finding just some cool chick to waste time with is virtually impossible.

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debdodd

Oh jaej ..... do you have it wrong .... there are plenty of guys out there that like fake boobs!!! Granted they are usually guys that don't want more than arm candy but there are plenty of them out there .... even know some of them and their husbands/boyfriends love it. I hugged my sister in law not to long ago and thoght I got hugget by tow rock cones .... to each their own I say .... if they have such low self esteem and this makes them feel better ... they're the ones who have to live with their decisions. It's sad that they feel that way but ....

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lauraclay

And then there's eating disorders. Looks are f-ed up.

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The purpose of a fish trap is to catch fish,
and when the fish are caught, the trap is forgotten.

The purpose of a rabbit snare is to catch rabbits.
When the rabbits are caught, the snare is forgotten.

The purpose of words is to convey ideas.
When the ideas are grasped, the words are forgotten.

Where can I find a man who has forgotten words?
He is the one I would like to talk to.

jaej

And overrated. Almost every good looking girl I've ever met has been a complete idiot.

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