no, if you've done your best, its your best. there comes a time of independence in a person, when they become responsible for themselves. i'll probally teach my kids to question, and talk about our ideas together. them asking why all the time might drive their hopefully future mother insane through.

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remember "for mere impulse of appetite is slavery, while obedience to a law which we prescirbe to oursleves is liberty"-rousseau: the concept of the general will "if we can not reconcile all opions, then let us endeavour to unite all hearts."-?"to be is to be perceived"-? "‘We can be as honest as we are ignorant. If we are, when asked what is beyond the horizon of the known, we must say that we do not know’-Robert G. Ingersoll