Cathy Jean Mockwitz

"Before we drown, or allow another individual to drown, in a muddy sea, of guilt and shame, we should always apply this mathematical formula, of judicious preservation, unto our own self, and unto others."

1. With the knowledge that I had at the exact time that I made this specific mistake, or mistakes, would I, or could I have done anything differently?

2. Did I have an illness, of any type, that could have clouded my judgment, of the situation?

3. Could medication, or lack of medication or nutrients, have caused me to act in a manner, that I would not have acted, if I would have had complete control over my faculties?

4. Was I truly free to act on my own behalf, in my own capacity, without any unjustified threat, duress, or coercion, from others, that effected my decisions?

I hope this is helpful,
Cathy Jean Mockwitz(Romanovae'***Da La Vinciente')

Bjarki Dalsgarð

sounds nice and all, but...
How is this going to make anyone feel better, thinking about the terrible thing he or she had to go through? Sure they might find out that there was nothing else they could do any better and find peace that way, but the possibilities are still there that s/he will blame themselves forever, for whatever happened. Forget about the past, live your life from where you are now, regret has no place, there isn't anything you can do about the past.
You did what you thought was right, no one can ask more of you, no matter the illness.
Even with a shattered spine you will always have full control of those things you do, if only you are able to move a hand, then you have full control of that hand. And if you don't have full control over yourself, then there is no one to blame, you did what you could. Stop regreting and wondering if there were things you could have done better.
how should I know? I wasn't there. Stop beating yourself up, get on with life.

Thinking like that isn't helpfull it only makes missery and pain worse.

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Cathy Jean Mockwitz

"I have very happy cells. It is not I... who is in misery or pain...for I do understand the arc. It is you who chooses not to understand. You are quite rebellious. It must be your alien nature. Perhaps this is because you are the pawned off spawn of Adam...the make believe man of the red earth...and his mate...Evil? What do you think?"

Cathy

Bjarki Dalsgarð

You have happy cells, but not overall happieness, you can't get that unless you are able to see things from different perspectives and accept them on good and bad. Or through ignorance, coz they say Ignoreance is bliss. If it is me or you who is ignorant of how the world works I shall not be the judge of.
Or it could be you who doesn't write coherent enough.
You have to be rebbelious to get the most out of life, otherwise you are just going to swim in your own little pond, unaware of the larger picture that is the world.
Spawn of Adam huh? well if I am that what are you then? last time I checked it took both a male and a female to create life, thus you couldn't have been here either without Adam, ergo you too are a spawn of Adam (not that I believe in him and Eve anyway)
What do I think? the first thought was "WTF are you rambling about?" apart from that I don't think much right now, as I'm in love.

Cheers

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Any clod can have the facts, but having opinions is an art.

The bitternes of life may consume you, otherwise it teaches you how to live for real.

Cathy Jean Mockwitz

"I am sorry, I do not understand your alien abreviations. Can you please define WTF for me. Also, what are you so in love with?"

Cathy

Bjarki Dalsgarð

sure, though I suspect the filter here on the forum is going to delete part of it. WTF= What The F uck. It is just a way of saying I have no idea what you are talking about.
I'm in love with life and a girl who is too far away from me at the moment, that is in physical distance if you was wondering.

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Any clod can have the facts, but having opinions is an art.

The bitternes of life may consume you, otherwise it teaches you how to live for real.

Cathy Jean Mockwitz

"Are you one of the Gypsy Kings? You speak like one. Maybe your family is Jew-Gyptian?"

Cathy

Bjarki Dalsgarð

King? suuuuureeee

My family is descending from vikings, no Jew-Gyptians there.

What about you?

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Any clod can have the facts, but having opinions is an art.

The bitternes of life may consume you, otherwise it teaches you how to live for real.

Cathy Jean Mockwitz

"What vikings are you speaking of? Where are your islands? Do you means the Danes?"

Cathy

Bjarki Dalsgarð

If you had used your eyes and perhaps google then you would know by now.

Faroe Islands

Vikings, the real discoveres of America, coming from all over scandinavia, my family is most descending from the danes though.

Now what kind of person are you? answer that one before asking more questions. And no damn riddles, plain english.

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Any clod can have the facts, but having opinions is an art.

The bitternes of life may consume you, otherwise it teaches you how to live for real.