Ok first of all lauraclay i've noticed heaps of literal flaws in the bible, im not actually confused in fact i expect them. I say im confused to avoid the arrogance of literally saying "this is wrong" its just a humility thing, sort of something i picked up from reading Socrates, he would always say that he must be a great fool not to understand (when the other person wasn't making any sense) anyway, thats where im coming from when i say im confused, sorry if i was a bit misleading
Neo, well i guess its sort of coming to that. This debates been going on probably for over 6 months, b4 we were going out. Originally we were just doing it for fun but now she's starting to have some serious doubts so im being very careful to make sure she realises that i don't care what she believes and i didn't start those debates with some plan of "winning her over." But good intentions or not thats sort of whats starting to happen. Now im actually trying to help her solve these problems i've brought up cos i only want her to change if i kno we've made every effort to make it so she doesn't have to. It probably would be a healthy change but its not my place to be trying to change her, so thats why i asked if anyone can solve the hell question (she's a literal christian so she can't take it metaphorically) because im seeing if theres any way we can find an answer we're comfortable with |