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Originally Posted by AB517  Hey Bjarki
I just noticed your sig. I am struggling very hard right now with bitterness. I am consumed with it and finding hard to move past it. You say that we are bad people; I am using most of my “inner strength” not to act.
Any help for me? |
Hey AB517
There is always help to get, how much and where and what depends on the bitterness/deppression in the question.
I'm in the situation that demands me to swallow the bitter pill, that is the girl I loved went with someone else, it is damn hard to get through. But keeping in communication with them both, getting to understand each others feelings and thoughts on it can do wonders.
I don't know what your case is as such here, but do not use your entire inner strenght to stop you from acting, go out act, make a fool of yourself, get laid, beat up some punk who deserves it, run a marathon, run screaming through the streets waving your arms, or just find someone you trust and cry on their shoulder.
Use the bitterness, put it into some form of action, get out with it, if it is your mum or dad you don't like then tell them it to their faces, confront your fears.
First of all find out why you are bitter, and try to understand the reasons for it, and accept that life sucks and then you die, that is more than half the battle. The rest is more or less to just get out with it all, instead of keeping it inside you
No offence in any of the things there, feel free to PM me
hope I can help, even though I'm no shrink