Evil Wiener -
I don't know the percentage of church goers saying one thing and doing another but I think that this may be one of the issues my girlfriend has. Not with me though, but with those of her own faith.
I actually am able to live a moral life without the Christian doctrine guiding me. She's told me several times how she admires the way I conduct myself. This might be part of what concerns her as she has trouble reconciling it scripturally and, I think, is worried about what her fellow Christians might think.
I have no qualms about attending church services with her. We go to contemporary services which are quite a bit less meditative than the traditional ones (I've always enjoyed the quiet, reflective segments of the traditional). I stand and sit at all the proper times, listen attentively to the sermon, take notes on ideas I wish to explore further, and conduct myself in a freindly, open manner. I've never been asked about my faith at these services but I'm well prepared and resolved to be honest about my agnostic position. I'm not going to fake celebrating the Gospel while there or otherwise disrespect the faith of those in attendance who truly have that faith. This may also be a cause for concern on her part.
Wow! Good therapy and, again, I really appreciate everyone's comments.
Thanks,
Tom O. |