my two bits for what it is worth
be honest to yourself and to your family
be kind
be gentle
recognize the good* bits of other people's beliefs
I suspect many of your core beliefs are in alignment with family's beliefs
I personally would not put those (waist high) boots.
You'll be falling in to the same trap that Astral is in.
You know your family better than us...... go with you gut feel.
hope this helps
*the bits that make sense for you
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