I would be a little concerned. I would perhaps talk to him about his habits - particularly the drug use. What seems like casual use right now could become very addictive, depending on the drug. If you are hoping to spend a lifetime with this guy, you might want to evaluate how his personal habits are currently impacting your life and how they may impact your life in the future. I am only concerned about this as my Dad's drug habits had a very negative impact on our lives. He was a great guy, but his unhealthy habits and addictions ruined his marriage to my mom, and at times put them both in close calls with the law. And all he did was smoke dope, which is addictive despite the controversy, I saw it first hand. Most people don't want to come home to a zombie anyway.
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