 the honeymoon's over
well, okay, there was no honeymoon. not yet at least. but there is dating and getting serious. my boyfriend smokes, drinks, and occassionally does drugs. these are things i don't really do myself (once in a while have a drink) but don't like because i'm kind of a health nut. i'm not one to believe i should try and change a person. but my grandmother just died of cancer. my grandfather died of cancer five years ago. hers just kind of happened (genetics as far as we were told) and he had asbestos plus smoking. this has gotten my kind of freaked out over things that obviously cos health problems. now i really want my boyfriend to, the very least, cut (way) back on his intact of known health disturbing substances. is it nagging to want to do this? if it's for his own good should i at least mention it to him even if i don't push the issue? |