My oh my oh my, we have arrived at the subject that has intrigued and baffled mankind since the dawn of time, love. I fully believe, just like the old truisms convey, that love honestly does cause a person to be blind, crazy, and often times stupid. I think there are two broad categories of people in regards to love, those who do everything in their power to find a significant other, and those who steer clear. It's probably healthiest to remain comfortably in the middle of these two groups, however I find myself constantly jumping between the two. My problem is that I know what love does to me, and I don't like it. I mean I like being in the relationship, but I don't like how it affects the rest of my life. I'm an extremely obsessive person, especially when I'm in a relationship. When I'm in love (or think I'm in love) I like to give that person my all, I like to make them my world. Everything else in my life tends to become second. I end up pushing my friends away, my grades drop, ect. So...with the lack of self control, I seem to have the healthiest lifestyle when I'm single. Who knows, maybe someday this won't be the case, but I think I need to grow up a little, and get my priorities straight before I get involved in a serious relationship.
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