Romansh,
although no one has said it, I am sure many think it ... we are very, very sorry about the loss of your child.
Having gone thru lots of fertility treatments, 4 invitro's I finally adopted also. Few can understand the angst associated with those treatments. I feel for you in light of all the hormonal and emotional ups and downs of treatment. Those of us that are parents know that is one of our biggest fears ...
As for you
Maximus,
for your information, adoption isn't that easy dude! It's not like you go to a pet store and pick which little fishy you want out of the tank! You seem so arrogant and presumptuous for your age. Your views and opinions are all so black and white ... when you have more years of actual living and loving you will realize how little you really do know. You are so full of righteous indignation and determination that you have all the answers ... that
you could straighten out everyone in the world, if they'd only listen to you and follow your fascist and narrow minded views ... phooey on you ... your book knowledge may be significant but your life experience is insignificant.
