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Originally Posted by sisterX  Well your friend is right you need to have lots of money to afford more than one wife. |
So i guess, if you are a rich muslim man, you can immediately marry 4 muslim babes and have steamy sex with all of them in 4 beds just like that!!!
Way to go , dudes.
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Originally Posted by sisterX
You may know people who keep more than one wife in the same house but they are breaking the rules.
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Many muslims break the rules , and no one is complaining. Similarly is this. No one is complaining either.
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Originally Posted by sisterX
As for Muhammed keeping all his wives in the same house. You are COMPLETELY wrong, stop making such assumptions. They all had their own places, and 9 year old Aisha actually did not even live with him until she was in her teens.?
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Muhammad was povertystricken . He could not afford more than one house, even though he had a dozen wives. Hence all of them were in the same house.
As for 9 year ols aisha, the hadiths clearly states many times that muhammad married aisha and consummated the marriage, when she was 9 years old. And Muhammad was 53 years old at that time.
And this is happening now as well. Many rich arabs, marry little girls in poverty stricken muslim families and countries, in order to deflower them, and after a few days of paedophilia, conveniently say the magic word, talaq, in order to divorce them.
This regularly happens in India and other countries too. I know of many muslim girls who have committed suicide after these divorces , probably due to the humiliation and sexual abuse.
Recently a film was made in south india on this subject, by a muslim producer who is a moderate intellectual , and the woman who played the role of the muslim girl who was battered by her husband, Meera Jasmine, bagged the best actor award in India , for her role in that film.
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0384404/ http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/a...how/570241.cms http://www.acteva.com/pba/21597/temp...event_id=65486
This and other films, and documentaries and media coverage, are putting
a lot of pressure on muslim fundamentalists who are keen to show that muslims are very kind to women and little girls.
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Originally Posted by sisterX I would not want my husband to take another wife but I believe I have a right to that CHOICE. For example if I could not have children I would want my husband to have children of his own and still be married to me, so in that case I would allow him to marry a second wife. I'm not that selfish..? |
And who gives you the RIGHT TO THAT CHOICE. Many muslim women are denied that choice and their husbands taken 3 more wives,whether they like it or not.
As a devout muslim woman, you should urge your husband to take more wives, especially from povertystricken families, and have sex with them, so as to satisfy their financial and physical needs. And if you don't do that, I will consider u a hypocrite.
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Originally Posted by sisterX
There are many women who really dont mind sharing their husbands and they also have a right to that CHOICE. Morals do not evolve, we have always been hmans and will always be humans.?
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Well, I didn't know that there are many women who don't mind their husbands having hot sex with their other wives.
From what I know, from my personal experience with my lover and mother, and of analysing female psychology and the psychology of many female acquaintances of mine is that they hate the very idea of sharing their lover or husband, and sometimes even commits murder if it happens.
I find this to be universal, except only in 'devout' muslim women like you.
And I don't think it is unnatural at all, because I too don't like sharing my beloved with other men, and so do other men as well.
Why should women be any different and urged to deny their natural instincts. I think it is unhealthy and will lead to psychological damage.
And this could be the reason why muslim women seems to lack self-confidence, self-esteem, dignity, feminine elegance and assertiveness .
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Originally Posted by sisterX Are you telling me something that was so accepted in the Hindu religion only a century ago is now seen as immoral? |
The hindu religion and scriptures tells nothing about marrying more than once, and the vast majority of hindus marry only once. This then became a general rule. There is no question of it being immoral or something.