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Originally Posted by sisterX  Actually the CORRECT quotation of that verse is this:
O you who believe! take not for protectors your fathers and your brothers if they love infidelity above Faith: if any of you do so, they do wrong.
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Still the same. it's only a difference in translation. It still counts as mistreatment of parents. Moreover, there has beeh historical precedence at the time of mohammed of the mistreatment of parents.
Moreover, the arabic word AWLIYA` here means family not protectors. Parents in Arabic are reffered to as awliya' amer (singular: waliy amer)
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Originally Posted by sisterX Say: If it be that your fathers, your sons, your brothers, your mates, or your kindred; the wealth that you have gained; the commerce in which you fear a decline: or the dwellings in which you delight - are dearer to you than Allah, or His Messenger, or the striving in His cause;- then wait until Allah brings about His decision: and Allah guides not the rebellious. |
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Originally Posted by sisterX |
I think this one proves my point!
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Originally Posted by sisterX There are also many verses talking about kindness to parents even if they disbelieve:
Your Lord has enjoined you to worship none but Him, and to show kindness to your parents. If either or both of them attain old age in your dwelling, show them no sign of impatience, nor rebuke them; but speak to them kind words. Treat them with humility and tenderness and say: ‘Lord, be merciful to them. They nursed me when I was an infant.’ S. 17:23-24 |
This one does not say anything about them when they are non-believers. It says show kindness to your parents. But when your parents are infidels you reffer to 9:23
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Originally Posted by sisterX "If (either of them) they try to force you to make you associate partners to
Allah then do not obey them. But rather be a companion with them in `ma'ruf'
(that which is good). And take the path of one who has submitted to Allah." |
This one has no source!