Ok, Chap. I'm not saying sleeping with everyone you meet is good. And I'm not saying sleeping with people right away is good. But if you love someone, you don't have to be married first. And you don't have to expect so much. I know several girls who have gotten pregnant, and the man stayed. I also know a couple girls who the guy didn't stay, and guess what, they're doing fine. Also, I'm pretty sure the Pill has a 99% effectiveness rate if taken properly. Condoms are also a bit higher, if used correctly. You make sex sound like it's this horrible thing unless you're married, because the boy probably doesn't love you. Well guess what? People get divorced. Just cuz he married you doesn't mean you're going to be together forever. Even if you're married, he could leave you if you get pregnant. It happens. Also, hearing girls talk about sex on the bench is not the same as having the hormones. Ask around, virginity isn't all it's cracked up to be. Yes, many girls regret their first. But then again, who doesn't regret ex-boyfriends?
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and when the fish are caught, the trap is forgotten.
The purpose of a rabbit snare is to catch rabbits.
When the rabbits are caught, the snare is forgotten.
The purpose of words is to convey ideas.
When the ideas are grasped, the words are forgotten.
Where can I find a man who has forgotten words?
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