Originally Posted by Chapstiquelova

lol...trust me i dont need to wait, you'd be suprised how many teens girls my age look at a guy, in fact a played a sport at a christian school, you should have heard those girls talking..............but any way, I agree with roman, its lack of self control, and even more, when you lust how easy is it to turn your head from that nice looking guy standing there....How easy will it be when your dating someone, if your so used to "looking" not to look? and then your not being true, or even marriage...when your married if you spent time lusting how easy is it going to be not to lust after other men?
Lust can lead to even harder to beat things.
Knowing that someone looks good, and lusting are two different things i want you to realize that.....But its when you focus on that good looking person, and things start going through your mind....and things may not, but you really shouldnt be looking any way...and another thing, does it bother you when a guy looks at you like your a peice of meat? or just keeps looking, and looking, and makes you feel uncomfortable well guess what he's prolly doing?
Lusting. And Women do the same thing to guys sometimes i dont know if guys take it as some women do as a "not good" thing or not, but whn your looking that man down, what are you doing to him that those men were doing to you? Lusting...and Lustin also takes away from learning about someone.
Some pleasing to the eye, not so much to the soul, some not pleasing to the eyes but they are pleasing to the soul, and some have both.
But lusting makes you look totaly past who a pperson is, instead of looking at that your looking AT WHAT a person is.